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What the World Gets Wrong About My Quadriplegic Husband and Me

我四肢瘫痪的丈夫和我的世界出了什么问题

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 2017年12月6日catapult.co
在我遇见他之前,他独自生活了,他是戏剧教授,
是时候写回忆录了吗?
我,我在你面前
现在,我已经向另一个陌生人透露了他的四肢瘫痪,将他的形象添加到了我同事的内部卡片目录中的堆栈中,我的丈夫不再能够提供特质或个人特征,一个写我的情书并教授即兴的人,非常处女般的人关于我们的毛巾情况,与我不同的是,在研究生研讨会上,他安静而谦虚。当我们分手时,我想知道:我的同事现在会回家,并感谢他的妻子:“感谢上帝,我们不是他们”的潜台词?
他们应该去哪里?你有什么特别之处? 迎来的人会知道在哪里可以坐在哪里?我们会被拒之门外吗?医生真的会和他说话,还是她会看着他的头和我的眼睛?它正在看着别人受到伤害和失望 - 不是像我的抑郁症那样的内部来源,而是由他人,建筑物,甚至一遍又一遍地造成的。回到预期的时候,日复一日地证明它们不是负担。
这是您自己的悲伤,您自己的需求,都追溯地归因于他在身体上恢复过的事物,这是您期望发挥的文化叙事中唯一重要的方法。
所以?
您期望什么?
不要那样看我只需建立一个该死的坡道即可。

 

                                    

劳拉·多瓦特(Laura Dorwart) 是UCSD的博士候选人和弗莱彻·琼斯(Fletcher Jones)研究员,专注于心理健康和媒体研究。她拥有安提阿大学(Antioch University),洛杉矶大学(Antioch University),洛杉矶大学(Barnard College)的文学硕士学位,以及vice,bitch,Sheknows,McSweeney's,Dazed,Dilettante Army等的章程。 laura博客在girlreads.com和https://medium.com/esoterica上。她的丈夫杰森·多尔瓦(Jason Dorwart)是一位剧院和残疾研究教授,他们在一起有史以来最可爱的孩子。他们有偏见。

   

劳拉·多瓦特(Laura Dorwart) | 推特:@lauramdorwart,Instagram:@girlreadsblo                  

 

Comments 
Veronica McKall

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Veronica McKall
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